Question by : People are confused at who am I?
So I’m a 19 year old guy, and people always ask me if I am gay or trans, some people even confuse me with a girl sometimes, because I look a bit strange to them and I do a lot of things normally associated with the opposite gender.
I believe that I am 50/50 on the gender scale. I have pretty long hair and a fancy hairstyle, use makeup, paint my nails and like fashionable original and tight clothes that reveal a bit of skin, never skirts though. I like shopping and romantic movies, flowers and cute animals. But also my body is more on the athletic side, I do martial arts and am good at it, I like heavy music and computer games. I like doing almost all kinds of sports especially extreme ones and like action and horror movies as well.
I am 100% straight, am attracted only to girls. I see no problem in just kissing another guy as a friend on the cheek or a quick kiss on the lips as a sign of being friendly and carring, but I can never imagine having sex with guys because they lack the basic necessary parts to turn me on. I like athletic girls, the ones that can fight and have abs and other muscles in good shape. I also like girls that are smart and are equal to me. But I like feminine face features.
So Imo regarding beauty I think that both guy and a girl are beautiful when they have a beautiful face and a strong body. And I can imagine sharing every activity with my significant other. Aka painting nails together after we spar. I generally think that there are not supposed to be any difference between a girl and a guy, aside from their genitals for them to be able to have proper sex and reproducing.
I usually get along with ”normal” straight guys, because I am completely straight. But I know NOT ONE person that shares my views. I haven’t had a girl once in my life, because some girls I meet are too ”girly” and fragile for me, and some are too butch and not smart and also girls are generally not attracted to me even though they tell me I’m beautiful. I get hit on by gay guys, and every time I’m telling them I’m straight, and they don’t believe me and sometimes it almost gets violent because I get angry.
So what am I? Am I completely alone in this?
To second answer: NO! Not trolling at all. Girls turn me on because of boobs and vagina’s! Guys don’t have that..
To fourth answer: I get angry because they don’t believe me and assume things. I am referring to women as butch, because English is my third language, misused sry. Trans males act ALL female, I don’t fit into that, I am not a ”pussy”.
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Answer by Roy
You have questions about your gender.
You sound like a cross dresser like me.
I consider myself a man, but I feel much like you do here.
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Well if you are not trolling which I believe that you do, anyways, I believe you are alone yes. But I don`t understand why you say guys don`t turn you on, but girls do since they are the same beautiful. I really think you are just trolling here.
Tranny cowboy? Hermaphrodite fireman? Misplaced your gender did you?
Well if you’re getting so angry over it it seems pretty clear that you are in denial.
If you just liked both aesthetically I don’t see why you would get angry. You also seem to be making excuses for no liking women, and you admitted basically liking both men and women and not having a problem with that. That means you are at least bi. Yet you reject girls and get angry when someone points out that (even though you like both) they think you might be gay?
Bi is like half gay.
I’m not trying to be rude here but something is going on. I also don’t know why you are referring to women are butch because that makes no sense because the only women who are butch are butch lesbians. So why would you even be considering lesbians when they’re off limits to you?
Is it that you’re maybe a lesbian woman and that is the problem behind all of this? (in other words you ARE trans and once you got a sex change you would need to come to terms with the fact that society would see you as gay, and you don’t want that.. ?)
edit: Oh! I get it sorry. The lesbian part was just a guess anyway. Nobody understands people who are different. But you were asking what you are as if there was more to it or a label other than just your personality and preferences, which obviously won’t fit a neat label. Not sure what ***** is since it was starred. However I am sticking to the trans theme. Not all trans are completely girly. Anyway, you do the majority of the stereotypically “girly” stuff anyway as far as looks and personalily. I suggest that you might be into the more typically manly stuff to try to compensate for all the girly stuff you are not comfortable with. Otherwise you are normal and well rounded.. however.. you are more girly than a lot of girls. It is really VERY unusual for a man to be interested in makeup, and when he is, he is usually someone who identifies as female, a androgynous bisexual and mostly gay. Sorry! But that’s just how it is. That doesn’t mean you are not an exception to the rule though.
I think it’s because you write too much, try to compact it into one paragraph and the answer will come out.